This article is an absolutely fascinating look into the world of transgenderism and de-transition. To nutshell it: the young lady was a confused teen (as we all were to one extent or another) and happened upon a series of Tumblr communities which led her to the path of becoming transgender. After some years in that world, she turned from it, de-transitioned and is now trying to put her life back together.
What caught my attention the most if the very cult-like atmosphere of the transgender community: how it is vigorously affirmed and rewarded in the transgender community and how our whole society is institutionally supportive of it. It is very much not something that comes to a person after careful, rational thought and weighing of risks and rewards, but as a fashion which, if you accept it, you’ll suddenly be changed from an oppressor-nobody into a hero-victim. It is a very toxic but very seductive thing.
After I read it and pondered it for a while, I recalled a passage. Of course it is from G K Chesterton:
Of course, the main fact about education is that there is no such thing. It does not exist, as theology or soldiering exist. Theology is a word like geology, soldiering is a word like soldering; these sciences may be healthy or no as hobbies; but they deal with stone and kettles, with definite things. But education is not a word like geology or kettles. Education is a word like “transmission” or “inheritance”; it is not an object, but a method. It must mean the conveying of certain facts, views or qualities, to the last baby born. They might be the most trivial facts or the most preposterous views or the most offensive qualities; but if they are handed on from one generation to another they are education. Education is not a thing like theology, it is not an inferior or superior thing; it is not a thing in the same category of terms. Theology and education are to each other like a love-letter to the General Post Office. Mr. Fagin was quite as educational as Dr. Strong; in practice probably more educational. It is giving something—perhaps poison. Education is tradition, and tradition (as its name implies) can be treason.
This first truth is frankly banal; but it is so perpetually ignored in our political prosing that it must be made plain. A little boy in a little house, son of a little tradesman, is taught to eat his breakfast, to take his medicine, to love his country, to say his prayers, and to wear his Sunday clothes. Obviously Fagin, if he found such a boy, would teach him to drink gin, to lie, to betray his country, to blaspheme and to wear false whiskers. But so also Mr. Salt the vegetarian would abolish the boy’s breakfast; Mrs. Eddy would throw away his medicine; Count Tolstoi would rebuke him for loving his country; Mr. Blatchford would stop his prayers, and Mr. Edward Carpenter would theoretically denounce Sunday clothes, and perhaps all clothes. I do not defend any of these advanced views, not even Fagin’s. But I do ask what, between the lot of them, has become of the abstract entity called education. It is not (as commonly supposed) that the tradesman teaches education plus Christianity; Mr. Salt, education plus vegetarianism; Fagin, education plus crime. The truth is, that there is nothing in common at all between these teachers, except that they teach. In short, the only thing they share is the one thing they profess to dislike: the general idea of authority. It is quaint that people talk of separating dogma from education. Dogma is actually the only thing that cannot be separated from education. It is education. A teacher who is not dogmatic is simply a teacher who is not teaching.
Children come in to the world as blank slates. Human children have a few very simple physical instincts but beyond that, everything they get into their heads was placed there by someone else. And it starts at the moment of birth (and maybe before). The infant human mind, provided it is physically healthy, absorbs gigantic amounts of information very rapidly. And we don’t even remember that exceptionally important part of our lives. I can dimly recall impressions of some things which happened when I was about 4. Prior to that: all blank. And my first connected memories – the first memories I could tell you a cohesive story about – are when I was about 7. And think of that: by the time I was 7 I could walk and talk, I could read and write a bit and do some basic sums. I was already well on my way to being what I was going to be.
But it wasn’t drawn out of me. There was nothing passive about it. Someone taught me. I was instructed on how to put on my pants. How to brush my teeth. How to hold a fork. I was entirely instructed in everything I knew until I grew old enough and knowledgeable enough to seek out information which was not being deliberately provided to me. And even then, I was merely taking information that someone else thought it would be good for people to know. I was not in any sense of the word a free agent. I could reason, especially as I got into my teens, but I wasn’t forging any new paths. I was still building knowledge.
Now, imagine if you will, as I sat there at the age of 14, all depressed because I wasn’t “cool” and I didn’t have the nice things others had and my parents were a bit off-kilter that I had found a community of people who told me I was depressed and felt alienated because I was actually X and if I would just join the X community, all my ills would be cured? At that age, I wasn’t remotely equipped to make such a decision. I was still a child. I had knowledge. I could reason. But I lacked the wisdom which can only come with age.
But that is precisely what happens to kids these days, as the linked article points out. The author found the community, learned its rules and then yearned for acceptance into it. Once she declared herself one of them, she received nothing but positive reinforcement for it and while her mother was dismayed, all official Authority told her that it was great and she was doing the right thing. There is only a very small chance a child can resist that. And this is especially true because in our modern world – especially over the past 20 to 30 years – even parents have refused to impart to their children the knowledge they have. The kids of the 21st century are rather cut adrift out there: no one says “it is thus, and so you must believe”. To do that is to be a dogmatic bigot, right? But as Chesterton points out, all education is the transmission of dogma. And if the parents of America won’t tell their children what is proper to believe, then somebody else will.
And don’t think that this is kids coaching kids. Kids don’t have anything to provide: they are still in the learning process. No kid sat around one day and all on his own decided he was trans. It not only doesn’t happen that way, it can’t happen that way. Someone has to tell the kid about transgenderism. There is nothing in nature or in the normal run of human family life which so much as implies that a person can be other than their biological sex. Every kid out there – and we see so many of them these days – who says they are trans are saying something they were instructed to say. And, bet on it, it was an adult who told them. The author of the article notes that the community she entered was filled with kids just like her – in the sense of being depressed and alienated. But it is inconceivable that a kid, all on his or her own, got the ball rolling. No, that would have been an adult. Or whole groups of adults: setting up communities which lure in the kids, propagandize them and then wait for the results. In other words, groomers almost certainly set these things up: people who want a steady supply of kids who will become what the adults wish them to become. The old, Catholic, Baptist and Jewish families produced steady crops of Catholics, Baptists and Jews because that is what they wanted – as hardly anyone really imparts their own views to their children, what we now have is others stepping in to get what they want.
What we are getting in our society today is not what we want. Outside a few loons hungry for attention, nobody looks at their infant child and goes, “I hope he wants to be a she”. No: the normal parent wants a copy: someone just like them. They see their boy or girl and imagine them doing normal boy or girl things leading up to a successful life, love and marriage and the production of grandchildren. And there is nothing wrong with that. There is nothing wrong with producing people just like yourselves. There are exceptions to the rule, of course, but the overwhelming bulk of people being decent, hardworking, law abiding citizens, a carbon copy is a laudable thing. But a very large number of parents aren’t doing it. That is, they aren’t taking the effort to impart knowledge.
They contract it out to the schools, to the TV, to the internet, to popular culture. Not all parents, but very large numbers of them. The author of the article gives the impression of parents who were a bit disconnected: after all, she had hours every day to spend on Tumblr being relentlessly propagandized. I’m not saying her parents were bad: I’m saying they didn’t take a deep enough interest. I can see a contrast in my own granddaughter: her father does let her waste some time playing video games but then he will take her out – to the park, up to Mt Charleston…somewhere, anywhere that doesn’t have internet access and where she has to physically move and engage in human interaction. I can’t know how she’ll end up, but I have my strong doubts she’ll wind up a sucker for a scam over the internet (her father carefully imparts to her how many scams there are out there). This must change: the family must become the primary source of information and the schools must only teach what the parents approve.
I’ve talked about this before, but this part of being a citizen: taking personal responsibility for ourselves, our families and our local communities. No more contracting out: we, the people, must take charge. And, hey, if there’s a local community out there who wants their children to learn about being transgender, that’s their business. As long as it is their decision, who am I to complain? But my bet is that if parents were fully engaged and insisting upon control of what goes into their children, you’d not hear a peep about it. Who in heck wants their kids to learn about that? Can’t be more than 1 or 2 percent: overly woke urban upper class people (mostly white, it goes without saying).
Lives are being destroyed – not just by this, but by so many other things. And it all comes back to this failure on the part of the adults to take charge and insist. Until we, the people, decide what is to be taught and to whom, this is just going to get worse. It is time to take a stand and start teaching what we want taught.
If good people do nothing, dysfunction prevails.
And then there is this
A reporter for MSNBC recently admitted on the air that many Democrat voters are not ready for life to go back to normal, suggesting that many of them don’t even want it to.
It is because they are NOT normal people. We simply can not have a normal functioning society with irrational, neurotic, victim based, self obsessed people. It’s just not going to happen. The entire trans movement is based in victimhood, as is most manufactured issues of the very destructive Democrat party.
A decent, free, and functioning society is wholly dependent on people who serve a larger purpose then themselves.
I thought it was disingenuous when so many Biden voters said they were just voting for a return to normal. You’re right — most of them are not normal people.
Sad, but true. The failure of parents is the number one reason for the high-level incarceration rate among youth, and young adults. The high murder rate, high divorce rates, high drug use rates, an increase in femininity among men … all can be attributed to the failure of parents. Sad but true, we have a lot of failed parents in America.
Do the math. The Left had its first big success in the 60s, and the people who were high school and college aged kids then are grandparents now. Many of them reared their children according to the values and dogmas of the 60s hippies who were the first Americans to be sucked in large numbers into the socialist fantasy. Now the children brought up like that are the parents of the young adults we are seeing today. We either need a time machine so we can go back to 1965 and head off this cultural revolution or we need to knock sense into this generation now.
Actually, I think the dream is dying for many of them, and what is funny is that Joe Biden and his team are the ones killing it. Nothing destroys the illusions and delusions of Leftism as quickly or as thoroughly as having to live under Leftist governance.
Just ask Canadians, who thought Trudeau was just a joke and a goofball—till they realized he is a goofball with a police force.
Yes ma’am, it is, it’s a generational problem that stems from the 60’s communist revolution (just for the sake of calling it that, since that’s what it is we’re facing now, is a full-on communist government), and now that it has had multi-generations to firmly entrench itself in American culture, I firmly believe there is no peaceful way out of the battle for the heart and soul of America. Our forefathers had a good thing going for a long time, unfortunately their vision for America has vanished into the annals of history.
I believe we have two choices – 1. We can go on peacefully while the country goes into communist tyranny. Or 2. We can stand up and fight, willing to give our lives, and take others’ lives for the freedom we so desire for ourselves and future generations.
The things we’ve seen happen in the past couple of years or so are small potatoes compared to what’s coming down the pike if we allow the current trek of American culture to continue into the hands of those who wish to take away our freedom.
I don’t agree with your conclusion about the only two alternatives.
I am already seeing the pendulum starting to swing away from the excesses of the Left, especially as they get bolder and more reckless. The International Left is disciplined and has a longer view, but the domestic Lefties are too eager, and are pushing too hard, too fast. And I think they are setting themselves up for rejection.
Look at Canada. These easy-going people just finally got fed up, and when the Left pushed too hard, too fast, they pushed back. And the harder the Left tries to flex its muscles, the more resistance it is meeting, and the more people are seeing its dark side. I think Liberals are going to have a hard time getting back in power up there. And it is having an impact down here, as we are watching storm trooper type behavior up there. Here, it is covered up by the media but Americans can see it playing out up there.
Instead of guns, we need better communication. We need people who can and will stand up and call out the Left here in the U.S. That is why we have been losing—-the Left has terrible ideas, but brilliant propaganda. Right now we need conservatives saying “Don’t think for a minute that what’s happening in Canada can’t happen here. Don’t think for a minute that you can’t have your bank accounts frozen or even confiscated simply for having a different political perspective. Don’t think for a minute that a tyrannical government can’t or won’t put you on a no-fly list as a domestic terrorist if you object to what your kids are being taught in public schools.”
The American Left has been good about turning the heat up slowly, so the little froggies didn’t really pay attention to what was happening. But then they cranked up the heat, and the froggies are jumping out of the pot. It’s our job to let them know that landing on our side isn’t scary or dangerous, no matter what they have been told.
I too think that the political tide is turning, thankfully. Many blue states are witnessing citizen revolts and people like Bill Maher and some Democrat Governors are beginning to push back in a big way.. Democrats made the mistake of following their unhinged far left because they were the loudest, the youngest, and the hippest and of course no one dared criticize them because they also fell into the most protected class in the party – women of color. But they have wandered down a very bad path and Americans are starting to figure it out. Especially the parents.
Why is the Biden regime pushing for war?? And they are pushing, make no mistake about that. The American Military industrial Complex wants war and all you have to do is watch the complicit media to figure that out. I am embarrassed by our government. Never before have I thought the American government was the worst actor in the world, but I do now.
After just watching an over sensationalized climate change promo on MSNBC, I’m curious to know if the dumb ass little progressives actually think the climate was perfect before man started “destroying it”?? Because it sounds that way. The non binary POS who was featured in the promo said – “Raging wild fires, rising ocean tides, and destructive storms, are these the new normal”??
Well guess what sweetheart? Those have always been the “normal”. In fact, a few hundred thousand years ago, they were much much worst but that was before Tik Tok so you may not know that.
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It’s happening, right in front of our eyes
The only part I disagree with is that they’re no longer “slowly” moving the goal posts. In fact, knowing that they’re going to get shellacked in November, the Left is in a full-court press.